“It always better to just leave” - I thought that when I was younger and wasn’t really even considering marriage. When you’ve heard some stories and all of them end up in two possible outcomes: it just vanishes or it’s finally over but with endless, cyclic shit-show drama. It seems to be so hard, but in the meantime there’s not a lot of resources out there encouraging you to work through relationship problems just to jettison them and move on to the next.  

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